Pulling hair and spanking azz cheeks...

FtpIt

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Ladies, can you please enlighten me on what this really does for you. I know it works but I want to know why...details please :D
 
you definately watch too much porn. :rolleyes:

its going to take alot of attraction, erotica and even alcohol to get me to the point where some guy is gonna be pulling my hair and spanking my ass like he owns me. :mad:

but in the best case scenario...i can see why, if a man is hitting it from the back...he'd probably start pulling the hair if he was getting all into it and thinking that he's doing something :haha:


(leave it to a feminist to ruin it for you eh Ftp? :D)
 
Spellbinder said:
you definately watch too much porn. :rolleyes:

its going to take alot of attraction, erotica and even alcohol to get me to the point where some guy is gonna be pulling my hair and spanking my ass like he owns me. :mad:

but in the best case scenario...i can see why, if a man is hitting it from the back...he'd probably start pulling the hair if he was getting all into it and thinking that he's doing something :haha:


(leave it to a feminist to ruin it for you eh Ftp? :D)

you never let up and I actually...nevermind :rolleyes:
 
Never tried that before. I've found that kissing the neck and running your fingers lightly in the right spots works quite well, though. Think I'll just stick to that. ;)
 
Timeless Beautie said:
ftp! Such craziness! Your the nempho of the boards I guess! I hate being spanked... I like doing the spanking... :p ;)

Oh hush it you...a lot of women like to have their hair pulled or azz spanked even though they may not admit it...for the women who like that I just wanted to know what it does for them...you aren't fooling me young lady because I know your butt is freaky in bed :p :D

Vilandra said:
Well not that I've ever had this done to me, but that does not do anything for me...

hmmmm...so what do you like if you don't mind me asking ;)

ZorCrow said:
Spellbinder I lubzzzz you . . .

put your "mini me" away and keep it moving...your wifey is that way remember :rolleyes:
 
*hand in the air* Ooh, oh, me in the back!!

*shrug* I dunno. I just know it sometimes works for me. The spanking not so much but sometimes a little rough stuff is good! Some people (like me) just sometimes like the feeling that their partner is strong enough or into it enough to control them. The idea that Jim COULD hurt me, but he WON'T because he loves me is very erotic for me. But don't think it doesn't get turned around too. Jim likes a little rough stuff himself too. ;) But it's not like it's all the time or it's the only thing that gets us off. After all, variety is the spice of life. ;)
 
Spellbinder said:
i like the rough stuff too...but i like to be the one to START IT. ;) :D :farrah: thats why they call me 'Mistress Farrah'

pulling hair and spanking isn't rough...whateva Miss :rolleyes: I'm spanking your azz so hush it and get on all fours because I got some work to do :hehe:
 
I wouldn't mind the rough stuff (though I think if it's a relationship the first time should be "romantic" sex), but I think the spanking/dominance thing is a whole different can of worms and just isn't a turn on for me. I can't really say why *shrugs*.
 
well... i think we ALL know that im freak NASTY, LMAO. So me saying that rough play is F-U-N should come as no surprise.

On the curveball, however... I never really enjoyed being spanked that much. I dunno what it was... but it just didnt WORK for me. Dont get me wrong... the right kind of rowdy is DEFINITELY sexy... but spanking was never a part of it. My last boyfriend was really into the spanking thing... so maybe he just overkilled it. However... we would 'wrestle', he would NEVER let me win.... and something about him having that kind of power over me was incredibly sexy... :shrug: you'd think with myself being SO competitive, id hate feeling powerless. :rolleyes:
 
I say its what ever she wants, and sometime there is just a feeling you get where you know to grab some of that hair, and beep the beep out of that ass. I dont know about the spanking though, I am pretty strong and I dont wanna hurt the girl plus I feel funny doing it, like I am supposed to say something but everything that comes to mind just sounds corny.
 
Ladies, can you please enlighten me on what this really does for you. I know it works but I want to know why...details please :D

Well, I've never been spanked sexually, but (based on childhood experiance which was in *no* way sexual, and in *no* way playful or fun) I figure the heat would travel up to my snatch and feel really good (for lack of a better term for how good it feels :p). It would make me feel safe and secure, knowing my lover can be strong for me, even when I can't be. It would make me feel safe knowing that my lover could take control of a situation, and I can just let go and release all my pent up emotions without fear.

Like a previous person says, it's the lover having the strength to hurt you, but they won't unless you want it.

Now, the hair pulling thing...The pain just increases the pleasure ;) Why do women like having nails scratch at their nipples (well, I do :$)? It's just one of those things in life that we enjoy ;) Don't question it! :p

You know, why do men enjoy blowjobs? I imagine it just feels *good* :p
 
I think it is as much emotional as physical. I have had girlfriends who would almost climax just by me talking about holding them down or pulling their hair and spanking them.
I will say, one of my best episodes was with a young lady who was very professional and quite coonservative. We had never gotten rough before but this day, she came into my dorm room in a nice jacket w/matching skirt, hosiery and shoes. After we kissed a bit, I grabbed her hair and pushed her around and over so that she was bent away from me. I then grabbed her pantyhose at the buttocks and TORE them and her panties away. After we were done, she called out of work and stayed with me, saying that was the best she had ever had. Needless to say, her 3 PM "quickie" visit turned into an all-nighter, with her buying into the game so much that she asked me for permission to leave in the morning. What a memory.
 
Ok now for the gay aspect lol :) I personally like it rough.. I like just going to town, but then there is a side of me that likes it sweet and soft ;)

But I must say an occassional ass smack does it for me lol.. Not like repeated spanking lol... but like in the moment just a smack. I like that.
 
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