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Sexuality:What's yours and the views?
*Gasp* Its one of those forbidden areas that some feel familiar discussing while others beat around the bush. But no matter what sexuality someone is, they're just like you and I. The only different is they are attracted to different sexes. So who gets you going, and don't be shy now. This is a very open board who welcomes any and all.
So the big question is are you straight, bi, or gay?
Well, as the hostess with the mostess I'll volunteer and answer this question first. Around my mid teenage years to late teenage years I came to understand I liked guys but along the way girls had their appeal too. Both had great qualities so in turn I was bi. In High School I kept it a secret for fear of rejection to my peers. My older brother is openly gay and I remember when he was in high school, he was picked on beyond belief so bad that he attempted suicide.
At the time, I was bi -- curious and I went through that whole drastic denial stage. I dated a girl too and even had to tell my mother, and she was not happy. She was born into the "baby boom" generation where a man and a woman were meant to be. She was also not happy with my brother but she accepted him (when he was 18, he and I are seven years apart). Anyway my mother thought it was an experiment or that I was being seduced by the idea of it.
Well, that relationship ended badly, bah! So I was admitting I was bi for the longest time until I met Jessica aka Rogue. She and I had been best friends for six years and we even grew up together. We were alike in so many ways it was scary. I just realized I'm blabbering here lol.
:angel: Anyway we started dated and we both realized we are in love and we got engaged. My parents utterly adore her and my friends love her too. So because I plan on spending the rest of my life with her, that now makes me gay.
My mother has come to terms with my sexuality, although she doesn't want me to inform too many people. She's afraid I'll end up getting hurt.
And of course Spellbinder is gonna be my Maid of Honor, Titania and Shockwave my bridesmaids lol.
Anyway I know not everyone believes in same sex relationships or marriages. Some support it fully. Either way though, what's your sexuality and what do you believe?
*Gasp* Its one of those forbidden areas that some feel familiar discussing while others beat around the bush. But no matter what sexuality someone is, they're just like you and I. The only different is they are attracted to different sexes. So who gets you going, and don't be shy now. This is a very open board who welcomes any and all.
So the big question is are you straight, bi, or gay?
Well, as the hostess with the mostess I'll volunteer and answer this question first. Around my mid teenage years to late teenage years I came to understand I liked guys but along the way girls had their appeal too. Both had great qualities so in turn I was bi. In High School I kept it a secret for fear of rejection to my peers. My older brother is openly gay and I remember when he was in high school, he was picked on beyond belief so bad that he attempted suicide.
At the time, I was bi -- curious and I went through that whole drastic denial stage. I dated a girl too and even had to tell my mother, and she was not happy. She was born into the "baby boom" generation where a man and a woman were meant to be. She was also not happy with my brother but she accepted him (when he was 18, he and I are seven years apart). Anyway my mother thought it was an experiment or that I was being seduced by the idea of it.
Well, that relationship ended badly, bah! So I was admitting I was bi for the longest time until I met Jessica aka Rogue. She and I had been best friends for six years and we even grew up together. We were alike in so many ways it was scary. I just realized I'm blabbering here lol.
:angel: Anyway we started dated and we both realized we are in love and we got engaged. My parents utterly adore her and my friends love her too. So because I plan on spending the rest of my life with her, that now makes me gay. My mother has come to terms with my sexuality, although she doesn't want me to inform too many people. She's afraid I'll end up getting hurt.
And of course Spellbinder is gonna be my Maid of Honor, Titania and Shockwave my bridesmaids lol.
Anyway I know not everyone believes in same sex relationships or marriages. Some support it fully. Either way though, what's your sexuality and what do you believe?
